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Make the Move.

 

 

Fortune Cookie Life Lesson #5

It’s up to you to make the next move.

Have you ever been in between a rock and a hard place? Where you know that you need to make a decision and the decision you make will significantly affect your future? Maybe you are stuck in a job that never goes anywhere, or you are just looking for more in your life. Either way, you are going to need to make a plan for the next step otherwise you may be regretting that you never did.

1. What involves making a move?

To answer this question, I would say an awful lot. When someone is playing a game, of chess does the competitor instantly go for the next move or do they take time to plan out the strategy. The only way the person will make a move so suddenly as if they know instantly what the outcome will be. When you first realize you need to make a step forward take some time to think about all the things that will change your life. Taking a look at the pros and cons of the decision can relieve some of the stress in trying to figure out if this move will lead you in a right direction.
If you are unhappy with where your life is headed it is probably time to make a move in another direction. Sometimes this move doesn’t even need to be drastic, little changes in how we look at our lives can also help us know which direction we need to go.
There have been times in my life where I have been completely unhappy with myself and new the only way to fix this was to change the way I thought about who I was. I needed to create my happy and work every day at making it happen. This challenge was not easy, but I learned to love myself and be able to see myself in a positive light. I knew that if I continued on a path of self-hatred that it would lead to me being stuck in an unhealthy relationship with my mind and I refused to let that negativity win. I made a move to start by living my days to the fullest. Even on the hardest days, I tried to find a content element. I made sure to keep those around me that gave me positive feedback and support. I worked hard at fixings the things that I feel I may have done wrong to create such a monster in me. I had to make this move if I wanted to feel what I desired and that was to be happy with me. By making this move, I am working to make my life the fullest it can be. I no longer sit and sulk and make myself miserable instead I chose to love every day and myself to the fullest.
There are decisions in life that may be directed in letting someone or something go in order to bring positive change to one’s life. Many times we keep the things around that are holding us down, and this can keep us from moving in a positive direction. Even though we may have the most love for this person or this situation we need to take a step back and ask ourselves ” Is this going to get my life in the direction that I want it to go?” If the answer is no then maybe it’s time to reevaluate the time that is spent on this. Letting go can also be feelings of anger and resentment. Many times there are feelings that can hold us back from making a move forward in life. We need to acknowledge those feelings and once we do we need to not go back to them. The hurt and pain we once felt will go away with time and soon the pain that we dealt with for so long becomes a guided light that will bring us motivation and happiness. Letting go doesn’t necessarily mean you have to forget what happened but know that the feelings that were holding you back are no longer there and have made you a stronger person.
There are also times in our lives that we just want to have something new. So many of us are so used to the same old routine every day, and yes some people are completely content with this option, and that is wonderful. There are still those of us that still have a want whether it involves a job, a family, or a particular life we want to be able to attain this goal. Wanting something for ourselves is not wrong or selfish it just means that we are feeling incomplete. If you wish to achieve a goal, you must make a move to get yourself there.

2. Why should I make a move?
Learning new things is always beneficial to life. Learning to cook a fresh meal makes life much tastier. Learning to fix something on your car will help you save money. Making moves in life helps us discover new and exciting things. If we take the time to make a move, this will involve a new adventure that we would have never dreamed of experiencing. Making life choices can also be a bit nerve-wracking. I have a friend who works for a gym teaching classes. She has decided to venture out and get a specific certification for her to venture out on her own. This choice to move forward in her career has had her learning and discovering new things for the last few months. She has gone beyond her comfort zone and decided to make a move to help improve her career and financial future. She made a choice and even though there were days that she thought she couldn’t attain her goal she kept trying and learning.
Some of our choices we will make will not have the best outcome and this is perfectly ok to have happen. If we didn’t try how would we ever know? A person can’t keep going on in life with the question what if I did this, how would my life be different. Being stuck in life is unfulfilling and creates a sense of dissapointment and taking the chance rather than letting it pass you by helps a person realize what they want, to begin with.

Making moves in life can be very rewarding. Although, there will be times in our life that will have us kicking ourselves and for these choices, we can learn and grow from the decision that is made. By making a move, our lives begin to develop, and this helps us in figuring out our purpose. These changes do not need to be huge. These changes can be as small as recognizing the positive in our lives. Even the most minor moves we will make in our lives may give us the most significant benefit.

 

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